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My husband was recently diagnosed with ADD about 6 months ago. He is seeing a therapist but progress is very slow. He is a really nice, good hearted person. I am constantly finding fires that he created and then I have to help find solutions to put them out. Two weeks ago he bounced a check to the IRS for our payment plan because he forgot to put money in the account. This week I found out he maxed out our credit cards. Even though I look to make sure things are going smoothly something slips by me. And I'm going insane searching for problems before they happen.

This is the first time I have ever been able to talk to anyone who might understand what I am going through. I am so relieved and yet, so frustrated that it has gotten to this point. I'm sure all of you on here understand what I mean by that. I met my Husband 6 years ago, we lived together for 4 years and then got married and had 2 boys. I knew about 6 months into the relationship that he had issues with depression and anxiety. I was sympathetic because I had suffered from it also, so even though our relationship was struggling I wanted to be supportive.

Hello,

I was diagnosed with ADD last week at age 38.  I'm still discovering all that there is in the world of ADD, and making sense of things from my life which are now explained by the diagnosis.  It's been such a relief, and I'm currently working with my psychologist, and we're starting to discuss marriage and living with ADD.  Just wanted to introduce myself, and am looking forward to reading more in here.  Thanks.

I had no idea there was a forum for people to express their feelings about either having AD/HD or being the non AD/HD spouse.  I am the opposite of an ADDer, that is neither right nor wrong :) just who I am.  However, my husband was recently diagnosed with ADD.  We both work in the field and I'm not entirely sure how I missed this (or if I was in denial) but it has certainly "rocked the boat".  So much so that I feel like I'm living in a tsunami.

Does anyone know of a link to something I could send my husband on what it is like to be someone with ADD?  Specifically if it relates to having trouble getting things done and stuff like that.  I need to send him something so he can see from my perspective.

Thanks!!

I am so glad i found this site!!

I am pretty sure i have ADD. I seem to fit every one of the symptoms. Especially of the now and not-now.

I am an only child and my parents fought a lot. That combined with the fact that i might have ADD is wreaking havoc on my family life with my wife.

I've been with my boyfriend who has ADD for almost 4 years. As of today however, I think that we are broken up. The beginning of our relationship was nice, but in the end I guess he just got bored with me. He spends most of his time playing computer games. When he comes home from work (around 4PM) he gets on his computer and doesn't get off until about 1 or 2 AM. Everynight, I go to bed alone. We rarely have deep conversations, we go out together maybe once or twice a month if I'm lucky, and we don't have sex.