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Looking for tips on dealing with RSD. My husband was recently diagnosed in his 40s (after 20 years of marriage) with ADHD. I think the most challenging aspect for me is RSD. We did several years of therapy where the therapist worked on getting my husband to own his behavior (everything was always my fault). Things got better for a few years. He would video our interactions and look for ways that he was being unkind. Recently though I went through a three month mental health crisis. During that time he was very supportive.

Hello...

Been awhile since i posted... As a quick recap, i am a non ADHD/ADD spouse in a marriage to an ADD/ADHD woman. A woman i love immensely.. Back in December my wife had a 3 day "Episode" that was the final straw... She had been abusing her Adderol in addition to Vodka... and no sleep... I cannot describe how TOXIC this combo is... I have seen it before, but not to this extent. My wife and i have been married going on 5 yrs... We have been together since late 2010.... She is an incredible woman when she's not in her MANIC ( my words) state.

So I just finished the book adhd and marriage, (and I would like to add I am not married but am in a 7 year long relationship where we have three kids, 2(ages 2 and 3) shared, 1 mine, 10, that was from before we met, he's also an adhd'er) I have suffered from adhd all of my life, from barely making it out of school to now managing and failing taking care of basic every day tasks.) I was finally diagnosed last year by a psychiatrist that tried treating my depression and anxiety before taking my adhd seriously.

Hi, new here.  My.. well don't know if I can call him partner anymore..

I have upset my wife for what seems to be the umpteenth time. She came out to speak to me and I was playing a game on my phone. I realized too late that I wasn't paying attention, but by then all hell had broken loose. I made the mistake of trying to tell her that she needed to tell me when I was distracted, but I did so out of frustration and this only made things worse. Now she's bringing up all the ways I've wronged her in the past and I don't know how to get us to move forward.

Hello all,I am here because I believe my wife has adhd. I've been with my wife for 5 years now,and many things have come out of hiding since then. Here are a list of issues that are doing damage to our relationship. 

*Her memory is terrible, she Forgets everything, loses things,always leaving her credit card in the card,or on the floor or anywhere but her purse.

Things have been great with my husband for the past few years.   However, he recently started playing music again and is quickly slipping into obsession.   Last night, he changed the strings on his guitar and then spent the next hour strumming it in the next room, when I finally brought up that he was annoying me, he insisted I couldn't hear it because it wasn't turned on, then he insisted that it wasn't as long as I was saying it was (of course, once it got annoying I started timing it because I knew this argument would come), then he went into the next room and continued to play it and ac

For years, we have been going to doctors and ERs because our 13-year-old (with ADHD and lots of other issues) complained of severe pain, only to be told that they could not find anything wrong.  Our new pediatrician said we should see a pediatric rheumatologist.  After an hour and a half of probing and asking questions, she said that it is Amplified Muscular-Skeletal Pain Syndrome (AMPS).  She specifically said that it is caused by stress.  She also said some kids with the condition couldn't even go to school because the pain is so bad.  Treatment includes regular exercise, massaging areas

My ADHD husband and I have had issues for years.  He's always known he had it.  He was diagnosed in the 80s-90s with ADD and took meds as a child.  Somewhere a long the line he stopped taking meds and his mom just took care of everything.  We were married when he was 27 and then I began taking care of everything.