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I have ADD, I've known since I was in 3rd grade.  It was then I was put on Ritalin and just shy of 4 years later I stopped taking it - I felt that as a child it was having an extremely detrimental effect on my ability to develop a sense of self as I seemed to be two completely different people.  On ritalin I had no interest in taking risks or having fun.  Off ritalin I was only about risk taking and being impulsive. 

In September I will be married 20 years.  To most people looking in we have a good marriage.  We have had our ups and downs and I have left once due to having an affair.  But, now I feel very trapped and after watching the Today show I am really convinced that my husband has ADHD and it is ruining our marriage.  In a nutshell.......I take care of everything in the home...laundry, dishes (although he does do the morning ones during the school year) and I must beg, plead and cry to get anything done that I am not capable.  Everything that keeps the marriage fresh is my idea...vacations, any

I had the luxury of knowing my future wife had ADHD before we married.  It has been a struggle some times but well worth the effort.  I could not have been prouder than the day she finished her Ph.D.  I sure wish that a forum like this had been available sooner.  Sometimes the need to share with those who have to deal with similar issues becomes overwhelming and those that don't have to deal with the day to day issues are clueless. 

Roland

I want to keep this short, though I do have a lot to say, not sure if everything or anything is going to make sense as I put it all out here...I'm hurting and I'm so very angry - destroyed - desperate - I don't know how to start this or where to turn, who to talk to... it's been a year and a half. We're engaged as of April (though I am constantly questioning why we made this decision - I love him, I'm just not sure it's enough to keep us together anymore) -I'm unraveling, fast now. I can't handle the ordeals anymore we were happy, once.

This post is directed to the non-ADD spouses/partners who remain in their relationship with an ADD person.

I have been married to my husband for 10 years (known him for 18) and we have 3 children 5 and under (we were optimistic), and one of them has autism.  My ADHD husband really, really struggles with our autistic son (who, ironically, is just like him).  Our son takes ALOT of my time & energy.  My husband is often demanding and impulsive, and can drastically undo the work I am doing to maintain a semblance of consistency and sanity in my home.  That is, I have learned certain strategies that work with our son to prevent meltdowns (that are hours long), keep the peace, and create a posit

So after 5 years of marriage I've - mostly by chance - figured out that my wife has ADD, a moderate form.  No she, hasn't been diagnosed yet - raising that is the next big step - but I'm very careful, have done my homework, and it's just too exact a fit.  It explains so much.  Trust me on that.

I have been reading this forum for some time now, and have diagnosed by husband with ADD. He is in denial, or if he may occasionally acknowledge it, he refuses to get help. This last week he has begun suffering from acute delusional disorder/paranoia. He believes that the everything is bugged - the house, my car, the computer; that people are listening in on our conversations, people are out to get him and bring him down. He believes all his friends are in on it as well - they are all agents. He suffered from this delusional disorder 7 years ago as well, for about 2 months.

Hi, I'm new here and asking a lot of questions!

We live in Ontario, Canada, and my husband is not as yet formally diagnosed. In order to be diagnosed by a specialist, we need a referral from our GP. She is new to us, and doesn't know my husband well enough to go on anything but our word. Still I think we will be able to convince her about the need for an appointment.

Well in any case, I would like to know what is covered by OHIP in diagnosis, treatments and/or medication.

Anyone have any experience with this?

I read somewhere that drinking coffee helps ADHD's concentrate much better. I have seen it work with my ADHD husband... in fact, now, when I have something important to talk about, I wait for the coffee. He isn't on any other medication  - we are self-diagnosed at this time.

I haven't seen anything about it on this site- or I'm not looking in the right places.... any opinions?