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Got it! Go ahead and think you’re doing everything you can to solve your problems then.>>> on Forum topic - Coping with anger at a sexless marriage despite treating ADHD as best as I can
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Then you need to show him or her this thread, and let your therapist point out your issues. You can’t fix your marriage unless you fix YOU. That’s not your wife’s job. As I said before, the responsibility to fix yourself is solely up to YOU.>>> on Forum topic - Coping with anger at a sexless marriage despite treating ADHD as best as I can
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Corrections? Or denials? You are DEEP in denial. See an individual therapist for your issues. These issues are not your wife’s responsibility to fix. The responsibility lies solely with you.>>> on Forum topic - Coping with anger at a sexless marriage despite treating ADHD as best as I can
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I quoted your own words back to you and you accuse me of gaslighting??? You need to become more self aware because you are projecting all over the place here. Perhaps you need a lot more individual counseling before you attempt marriage counseling. You are nowhere ready to be the kind of husband you yourself said your wife needs. You said she needs you to be aware of her feelings and of how much your behaviors have hurt her. You’re just repeatedly defending your actions here, implying that you’ve...>>> on Forum topic - Coping with anger at a sexless marriage despite treating ADHD as best as I can
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“I'm craving sex and intimacy with my wife constantly. In addition to that craving, I find myself becoming angry at my wife for seemingly refusing to make any attempt to improve our sex life together.” “ I feel trapped in a sexless marriage, and that feeling of being trapped is creating anger, anxiety, and, if I'm honest, a temptation to find a way to fulfill my needs outside of my marriage even though I don't want to pursue it. I feel unloved, undesired, and lonely, and those feelings so quickly...>>> on Forum topic - Coping with anger at a sexless marriage despite treating ADHD as best as I can
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“I'm craving sex and intimacy with my wife constantly. In addition to that craving, I find myself becoming angry at my wife for seemingly refusing to make any attempt to improve our sex life together.”>>> on Forum topic - Coping with anger at a sexless marriage despite treating ADHD as best as I can
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I’m sure your wife can sense your growing anger and resentment about living in a sexless marriage…. unless she’s in a coma. If you want intimacy in a committed relationship with your spouse and not just sex, why would you tell us you are considering going outside the marriage for sex???? Please stop with the personal insults like calling me a liar and accusing me of gaslighting. Quit gaslighting yourself. The truth is that you just don’t like what I’m telling you. If this is how you argue with your...>>> on Forum topic - Coping with anger at a sexless marriage despite treating ADHD as best as I can
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That rather confirms my instincts. You won’t get back to a satisfying sex life while she’s still seething. That’s where the work has to go; dispelling her anger, making her feel happy and relaxed and trusting. And that really has to be about her, and the two of you as a couple, not as parents or householders. Good luck.>>> on Forum topic - Coping with anger at a sexless marriage despite treating ADHD as best as I can
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